Alchemist Archetype

Catalyst for Change

The alchemist archetype herself is a catalyst for change and she is the one changing. She is a scientist studying the world and the one being studied. The alchemist herself is the fire, the stove, the vessel, and the material.

Alchemy is defined as the transformation of a base material to an ennobled material – moving from the mundane to the divine. This transformation takes place by the ritualistic use of fire in a furnace. Alchemists often worked with metals, but also drew from infinite sources in nature.

Science and Spirituality Merged

The alchemist archetype works with the physical substances and the five senses, and she consults mystical sources. The alchemist knows she’s working with divine power and acts in accordance with that power. Alchemical experiments are ceremonies. Astrology and the movements of the heavens matter for the timing of alchemical procedures. Goddesses, gods, spirits and angels are consulted in the work. The breath of spirit is necessary for the transformation to occur.

A gift of the alchemist archetype is that they don’t see a conflict between science and spirituality. Alchemy was born before there was such a distinction. Both science and spirituality seek to answer the great questions of the universe and the underlying nature of all things. They inhabit the border between the known and the unknown. Both seek union with greater wisdom.

Shadow of the Alchemist Archetype

The alchemist archetype in the shadow wants transformation to progress in a linear “point A to point B” fashion. Here she is goal-oriented and impatient to reach the end without delay. Despite the fact that she is working in an inherently experimental field – which requires failure to learn – she would rather have a formula for success. A fixation on the goal and need for a formula causes those of us working with the alchemist archetype to miss the entire point. It is through the uncertainty, the surprising events, and round-about processes that our desire for the goal itself experiences transformation.

In alchemy, there is a great detail of secrecy and coded language. Alchemists (like scientists) have a complex vocabulary and set of symbols. It requires a great deal of study just to learn how to read an alchemical recipe, and alchemists throughout time have been incredibly protective of their work. This hoarding of knowledge, shrouding discoveries in secrecy, and talking down to amateurs is the shadow of the alchemist archetype.

There is also a dance with unethical behavior, in that the alchemist as scientist seeks to have power over nature and bend nature to his will. The goal of redemption is distorted into domination. This desire for control manifests when the work becomes entirely self-focused. When alchemy is solely about your personal healing and transcendence, you miss the greater, cosmic calling of the alchemist archetype.

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Letting Go of the Outcome

In the light, the alchemist archetype understands that the soul works in circles. It is common practice for the alchemist to take the finished product – gold, the philosopher’s stone, the elixir of life – and put it back into the fire. This is the “rotatio” or the “round”. By refining and refining again the magical end of the work, the alchemist purifies her desire for the goal. When you find yourself fixated on the outcome, remember the alchemist’s wisdom. Give what you’ve attained back over to the fire. Let it go. Lose yourself and the goal to the work.

Subjectivity and Objectivity

Science was born from alchemy, but has forgotten its roots. In science, we believe we must be objective all of the time. The gifted alchemist understands that pure objectivity is not possible, we are always in the work to one degree or another. There is wisdom however, in getting some objective distance from our healing and transformation work at times. Being more intellectual and dry helps us gain new perspective. There is also wisdom in embracing our fully subjective experience of transformation. We are working on our inner selves and there’s no denying it. The gifted alchemist archetype navigates this spectrum freely.

Sharing Esoteric Knowledge

The alchemist in the light knows that instructions for transformation can be dangerous to the uninitiated. The coded language and hidden meanings are meant to be revealed over time as the initiate is ready. This is so true in spiritual work of all kinds such as shamanic journeying, meditation, yoga, etc. The alchemist archetype within encourages us to respect and take our time learning secret knowledge. Once we have this knowledge, it’s our duty to share it judiciously, so that others can benefit.

Giving Your Soul to the Work

The Greek work Meraki (pronounced “may-rah-key”) means the essence of ourselves that we pour into our work. This is the blood, sweat and tears, the heart and soul, that we invest. The word “sacrifice” is not about what we lose, but about what we offer wholeheartedly on the altar of the sacred. This is where we give ourselves over entirely to the work.

The gifted alchemist not only gives the outcome, but also her whole being to what she’s passionate about. The alchemical work is no longer about her own transcendence and enlightenment, but about the redemption of the world. She seeks to ennoble the world around her by seeking the divine in the heart of matter. There is no separation between the physical and the spiritual. This is the ultimate ending, middle and beginning of all alchemical processes – unification.

In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna (the divine avatar of the god Vishnu) says, ”I am the ritual and the sacrifice; I am true medicine and the mantram. I am the offering and the fire which consumes it, and the one to whom it is offered.”

All is one and the same in alchemy.

Ancient Origins of Alchemy

In ancient times, experimentation with nature – animals, stones, materials, plants – was part of ritualistic magic practices. When the transformative power of fire was added to the equation, alchemy was born.

Humans have wielded fire for well over a million years. Cooking is the most ancient form of alchemy. Forging metals is a bit “newer” invention. The earliest evidence of copper smithing is 9000-9500 years ago in North America and in the Middle East. The alchemist archetype has been around for a long time and is found all over the world.

There are long records of alchemical practices in China and India. Between 100-1300 CE, Chinese emperors funded alchemists for the production of brass and often required they be licensed. In India, there is evidence of forging bronze in 2300 BCE with the heyday of alchemy being in the 10th Century CE. Experienced metallurgists in India were Tantric yoga practitioners and alchemical work was absolutely ingrained in their spiritual practice.

Ancient Egyptians were also experienced metallurgists. Their alchemical work also included the practice of embalming. There is an ancient text telling how the goddess Isis gave birth to alchemy in the “city of the holy technique” when she negotiated with an angel to receive an alchemical recipe for resurrecting her husband Osiris. Bits of the recipe survive to this day.

Alchemists have also worked with fire and furnaces for thousands of years in North and South America. Copper and gold ornaments and tools were forged ceremonially in the first millennia CE. Pottery making is another form of alchemical practice that carries into indigenous cultures to this day.

So as you see, the alchemist archetype is found all around the world throughout the whole of human history!

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Sovereign Archetype

Authenticity: Showing Up for You

The sovereign archetype reigns over our free will and choices. The word “sovereign” means “supreme ruler”. Here we know all the ways have the power to change our destiny.

“Sovereign” also means “acting or done independently and without outside interference”. This is the definition that gives us even more to work with. Are you committed to breaking free from familial and cultural conditioning? This is the sovereign archetype within asserting your independence.

How important is authenticity to you? How hard do you work to break the habit of people pleasing to show up for yourself? This is also the sovereign at work within.

Inherent Dignity

Cole Arthur Riley opens her book Black Liturgies: Prayers, Poems, and Meditations for Staying Human with this contemplation:

“I don’t know what dignity is. Not cognitively. But I know what it feels like. To be loved, to receive honor, to be encountered as human, not because of any demonstration or performance of such, but because, in mystery, your very being is a miracle, your existence a delicate stitch in the cosmos. Dignity will never depend on anyone’s belief in it, certainly not your own…It is inherent.”

The sovereign archetype within us is what carries our inherent dignity. This is the power to rise up out of the ashes and assert that we matter, that our lives matter despite what the world, its systems, and its societies tell us. The sovereign has the power to usurp self-loathing and self-doubt and replace them with self-love. We are worthy no matter what.

Challenges of the Sovereign Archetype

The sovereign also has its challenges. There is so much that is out of our control, but so many ways in which we struggle to maintain control.

All of us have an innate desire to make our lives unfold how we’d like. At times, we find ourselves trying to dictate how other people talk to us and treat us. We plan and strategize so that things go smoothly. We want to know what to expect and when to expect it. All of this falls under the purview of the shadow sovereign.

We get caught up in planning and managing life. Our attention goes outside of ourselves.

The Strategist Archetype

An important sub-archetype of the sovereign is the “strategist archetype”. It is a sub-archetype because it is more limited in scope and carries important themes within the sovereign.

When we get caught up in the excitement of strategizing and planning we think the choices are in the details. The choice is not about the exact date we initiate a new project or who we initiate it with or even what that project is. Uncertainty is inevitable. We can’t plan for it all despite how much the strategist archetype within wants to.

The important choice is the SPIRIT in which we enter into that project and the way in which we navigate surprise obstacles. It’s not about managing to minimize uncertainty. It’s about how we manage ourselves in uncertainty.

Historically, it was the sovereign’s duty to provide for the people of the land and protect them from famine, natural disaster, and invading armies. A true sovereign knows that instability is inevitable. The work is to have a strategy for weathering the uncertainty while leading with integrity.

The Sovereign Sets Boundaries

Most of us think that setting boundaries has to do with telling people how to treat us and making them respect our “no”. This is the quickest way to give away our power. We end up trying to manage someone else’s behavior. A futile endeavor indeed. When we step outside ourselves to force our will on others, it usually doesn’t work.

In the shadow the sovereign archetype says to her friends, “Here are my rules and I expect you to abide by them. If you don’t there are consequences. I’ll be really mad at you, I’ll make you feel bad, I’ll get on your case, and I may even stop being friends with you.”

In the light the sovereign archetype says to herself, “I am called to be in a friendship with this beautiful person before me that I know also has flaws and wounds and hangups. I trust that I’ll be able to navigate what comes as a result of opening up to this love.”

In the light the sovereign archetype keeps us inside our own boundaries, our own kingdom. We refrain from stepping outside of ourselves to manage someone else’s actions.

We choose to focus on the power of our own choices, which is the ultimate choice.

The Saboteur Archetype

When I originally taught archetypes in a prescribed system, I taught about the “saboteur”, which was a maddening affair. That name is a trap that results in affirmation of the problem without providing solutions. When talking about the saboteur students ran in circles railing against how they procrastinate, doubt, ruminate and stall out.

By identifying with the name “saboteur” we fixate on the ways we undermine ourselves. This makes sense because the definition of sabotage is “to deliberately destroy, damage or obstruct something.”

Analyzing the patterns of the saboteur archetype is a maze that gets us nowhere. We know we’re making the wrong choices, but berating ourselves for doing so doesn’t help.

The saboteur archetype is another sub-archetype of the sovereign. The saboteur defines aspects of the shadow of the sovereign. Meanwhile, the sovereign archetype as a whole gives solutions through her gifts.

Power of Choice

The sovereign archetype is one we all have within. It is a core archetype of human nature. We all have free will. Even when our material choices are taken away and life is not going how we want, we still have a force within that determines how we will approach, think, and feel about what we are experiencing.

  • The amount of hope and despair we hold and conjure is a choice.
  • Whether to open up or be protective is a choice.
  • To love or fear is a choice.

We go through so many choices in any given hour, it is no wonder that we miss most of them. It’s no wonder that mindfulness is something we have to learn and practice. It’s overwhelming and sometimes paralyzing to think about how many choices we make and how those impact our lives. Hello karma!

Great world religious leaders and avatars have come to teach us about the power and consequences of our choices. In the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna stands on a battlefield at the precipice of war and gives a sermon on what choices matter. In the end, it’s all about the choice to follow divine will and surrender the fruits of our actions.

The Buddha teaches the paramount importance of choosing compassion.

This is the peak of the sovereign archetype in the light.

The sovereign archetype in the light asks, “Where am I called to serve right now? What choice aligns with my soul? What can I hand over to Spirit? How do I choose love?”

The sovereign in the light is not interested in ruling over our lives and others. She’s interested in following her soul and the soul of the world.

Related Archetypes

Most people equate the sovereign archetype with royalty, but the sovereign archetype is broader and more universal than that. You can explore royalty through this link:

Queen and King Archetypes

The sovereign archetype is one of the four core archetypes that all of us have. Learn about the others via these links:

Child Archetype

Survivor Archetype 

Treasurer Archetype

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Treasurer Archetype

Treasurer Archetype, Money Archetype, and Financial Archetype

The financial archetype that manages your money, evaluates your self-worth, AND brings clarity about what really matters.

Money matters. Resources are a universal concern for us all. If we’re going to talk about how personality archetypes help us understand ourselves (and human nature) better, we need to understand the archetypal pattern that rules our relationship to money.

Meet the treasurer archetype. The treasurer archetype identifies, exchanges, and manages our inner and outer wealth. It negotiates our relationship to matter AND what matters.

The realm of the treasurer archetype governs the following:

  • Exchange of our resources and money
  • Identifying what matters, what we value
  • Finding our inner treasures
  • Knowing our worth

The word “treasure” comes from the Greek word “thēsauros” meaning “storehouse”. The earliest storehouses were granaries. Evidence for the first granaries dates back to over 11,000 years ago. The idea of accumulating and storing resources is so old that it is part of our nature at this point. Once the resources are stored, decisions must be made about how and when to put them to use. If the resources sit, they rot.

Wealth is accumulated and it is spent and traded. The way we buy, sell, and exchange our material possessions and inner talents all falls under this archetype’s authority.

Scarcity Mindset and Getting Out of Balance

When the financial archetype of the treasurer is challenged and we don’t have a strong self-worth, we go to extremes with money. We either overdo or under do it. Our inner accounting gets out of balance.

When we fear not having enough and losing what we have, we inhabit a scarcity mindset. This shadow side of the treasurer expresses in a few different ways.

First there is the hoarder who gathers up material possessions to fill the lack of inner worth, and who refuses to let anything go. The miser is stingy and refuses to share with others, which hides an insecurity over not feeling like enough. The cheapskate who cuts coupons and always needs a good deal also has a scarcity mindset, irrespective of if they have plenty to live on or not.

On the other end of the spectrum, we have the person who takes an abundance mindset to extremes. The shopaholic and spendthrift spend extravagantly and often beyond their means. They are trying to artificially inflate a low sense of self-worth.

The opposite of a scarcity mindset is not the worship of abundance, but a trust in that which never passes. This is trust in our soul and the Soul of the World.

Inner Accounting

How we do our accounting reveals what we value. Do you do two column accounting? This is looking at time in and money out, valuing only the activities that result in financial gain. Is the financial bottom line all that matters? This is the treasurer archetype out of balance.

We are in balance when we have a diversified balance sheet. This means that we carry multiple bottom lines, and value the flourishing of both tangible and intangible things.

Do you take into account your own mental and spiritual wellbeing or are you caught up in hustle culture? Are you okay with making a little less money, but having more time to spend with family and friends? Do you prioritize spending time on yourself and activities you love?

Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is

You can say you value helping others, but when faced with choosing between a high-paying, high-powered job in a corporation and a less lucrative job as a non-profit employee, which way would you go? We want security AND to follow our calling, our soul’s work, but life doesn’t always pan out that way.

Life gives us either/or choices so we can cultivate real self-worth.

… Are You Selling Out?

Maybe something is a good investment for you according to traditional accounting methods, but you have to compromise on your values to make the added profit. If you feel like you are selling out, your inner treasurer can help you reclaim your worth.

The treasurer archetype is the piece of us that knows how to choose what really matters. This is the essence of putting your money where your mouth is. This isn’t easy and it gets at the core of who we are.

Knowing Your Worth

The treasurer is intimately linked with our self-worth. Anytime anyone asks you your net worth or how much you make at your job, they are engaging your treasurer archetype. Your response, to avoid answering or to lean in, is fueled by your current value system.

Early on, our self-valuation system is money. We look to grow our self-worth by receiving increased compensation for our labor.  As we mature further in our capacity to consciously work with the treasurer archetype, we adopt value systems such as recognition, praise, social status, and strategic alliances. When these systems reveal themselves as lacking and illusive, we turn to the soul and ask what she values. This is when we begin to learn our true value.

The gift of the treasurer archetype is to help us understand our true net worth. This has nothing to do with things of this world and everything to do with our gifts, wisdom, compassion, and generosity. When we have a strong sense of self-worth, we are leveraging the power of this archetype.

The most important questions you can ask yourself are:

  • What are my inner treasures?
  • Do I see myself as a treasure?

Living in Integrity

To have integrity means to have congruence between the inner and outer. The treasurer archetype in the light brings us into integrity, aligning our values with our actions. This is what it means to walk your talk.

Material things change, fall away and are lost. When we place our trust in things we find that we are lost without them. When we shift our focus to values of the soul that are imperishable, we find our way to the heart of all things. This is not about doing away with the material world but instead realizing that the origin of all things is where we place our worth. In essence, the empowered treasurer archetype takes us into the heart of all things, to the Source of true worth.

Ultimately, the highest expression of the treasurer archetype is placing trust, value and worth in what always is. To live in integrity with the treasurer is to be in alignment with Source.

Check out PART TWO of this article on the treasurer archetype that includes a wealth goddess, a myth about a spirit animal, and helpful ways to transform your relationship with the treasurer including working with Feng Shui and tarot.

 

from the victim archetype to the survivor archetype

Survivor Archetype

All of us benefit from the strength of the survivor archetype that courageously carries us to the other shore. This archetypal pattern is a fundamental part of human nature. As our experience with the survivor increases and we learn how to leverage its gifts, we come further into our authentic selves. Our compassion grows.

Archetypal patterns can’t be changed. And, they can go by different names and descriptions. Our understanding of them increases. There’s always room for rewrites.

When I originally taught archetypes in a prescribed system, I had to use the name “victim”, which I always disliked. That name is a label used to judge ourselves and others. It is a weapon rather than a tool for exploration.

By calling someone a victim we further victimize them. This is in direct contrast to the gifts of strength and compassion this archetypal pattern possesses.

This archetype is better known as the “survivor”. This name encompasses all the patterns of this archetype:

  • Experiences of victimization
  • The confidence needed to heal from attacks
  • The compassion for other victims that results from understanding suffering

Challenges of the Survivor

The survivor archetype is challenged during times of powerlessness. Uncontrollable forces rage in and destroy everything. Our life becomes completely unrecognizable. Could we have stopped this terrorizing, shattering loss? Maybe, maybe not, but by the time the chaos rains down, it is too late to staunch the devastation.

When all is lost, we are the victim. Shock is real. Agonizing pain is genuine. That blank stare and unresponsive state is honest. This space of utter powerlessness and despair can last five minutes or five years.

This is the challenge of the survivor archetype, the powerless, helpless, hopeless pile of suffering that is overwhelmed by the terror of the experience.

It is important that we understand victimhood as a real state that requires our compassion. Facing the suffering in the world reminds us of our own vulnerability, and that vulnerability is exactly the power we need to move through our own annihilation.

Fawning = People Pleasing

When under threat and our adrenaline rises, we automatically fight, flee or freeze. Did you know there’s a fourth possible response? Fawn.

Fawning is a people pleasing response to a threat that involves placating the perpetrator. Make them happy by any means. Say whatever you need to to get away from them as quickly as possible. This means saying “yes” when every fiber of your being is screaming “no”. This means agreeing with someone when disagreeing means you’ll be abused.

Fighting, fleeing, freezing, and fawning are survival mechanisms run by the survivor archetype. These responses help keep us safe. Rather than beat yourself up for people pleasing and not standing in your truth, remember you did what you had to to stay safe in the moment.

The real problem was that the person threatened and/or attacked you. Now the next task is to sort out what protection you need in place to stay safe going forward, so you don’t have to fawn, fight, flee, or freeze again.

Patience with Playing the Victim

Our tolerance for people who play the victim can grow short. When we see people suffer long past the point of what we feel is reasonable the following happens:

  1. The complaining, misery, and moodiness grows old
  2. We try to cheer them up, convince them to be optimistic
  3. We grumble about how their energy brings us down
  4. When we lose hope for a loved one’s hopelessness, we sever ties
  5. This, paradoxically, makes us feel like a victim

On the other hand, you may be the person playing the victim. You may be caught in an endless depression that alienates you from the outside world. You may wish that you could stop whining. You might think that you should be over this by now. Frustration with yourself causes more feelings of victimhood. Whining becomes a power tool you use unconsciously or consciously to manipulate others into noticing you, which feels terrible too.

All of these moods, all of this messiness, are the obstacles the survivor archetype helps us overcome.

Courage to Thrive

Every time you affirm that “I am strong” and “I will make it through this,” you are tapping into the infinite power of the survivor archetype. The survivor archetype relies on the power of your soul to see you through unspeakable tragedy.

A gift of the survivor archetype is confidence. Confidence allows us the ability to protect ourselves from victimization. It has the power to bring us out of victimhood and playing the victim.

Triumph comes from the glimmer of hope that always resides in the core of your being. This is not conditional “hope that” things will get better. Instead, it is an absolute hope in the inherent worth and goodness of you and the world around you. To hope is to orient towards the good here, right now.

To learn more about conditional versus absolute hope, see this excellent talk by Evan Thompson on “Enacting Hope”.

Absolute hope helps us move from surviving to thriving. The survivor archetype is willing to finally say “enough” to adversity and strive for something better. Seek a peaceful time where creativity can shine. The survivor is the fundamental champion of freedom from suffering that helps us realize our full potential.

Cultivating Compassion

We want to fix and heal pain. Suffering is uncomfortable. When we resist suffering in ourselves and others, we perpetuate the cycle of victimization.

When we say that being sad is “wrong”, we judge ourselves. This judgement only makes the feelings worse. It is okay to be sad, hurt, traumatized, etc. These are natural states. We are not meant to stay in these places indefinitely, but they must be lived through. When we try to shut negative feelings out and make ourselves wrong for feeling bad, we fall deeper into despair.

The survivor brings the gift of cultivating compassion for others and for yourself.

Compassion means to “suffer” (passion) “with” (com-). This does not mean to sink into a deep, dark pit of misery with someone and be unhappy because they are unhappy. To be compassionate means to be beside someone, to love and support them, to bear witness to their pain, and to channel mercy.

We express the survivor’s gifts by:

  • Meeting negative feelings with equanimity and not exaggerating or downplaying them
  • Being a compassionate witness and offering love without getting wrapped up in the pain
  • Reminding ourselves that everyone has traumatizing experiences and that we are not alone
  • Speaking to ourselves and others with kindness

Compassion is the most powerful healing remedy there is.

 

Being an empath archetype

Empath Archetype

Let’s all help amplify voices, dispel myths, foster acceptance, and celebrate neurodiversity during Neurodiversity Awareness Month and Autism Awareness Month this April.

Being an Empath

There is overlap between people who have the empath archetype and those who are neurodivergent. As to the extent of that overlap, I am uncertain, but my guess is that it’s quite extensive. I say this as a member of both groups, having plenty of experience with being an empath and falling somewhere along the autism spectrum. I also have multiple close family members who are one or both of these.

Neurodivergence includes autism, Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), Highly Sensitive People (HSP), ADHD, synesthesia, and many other variations from neurotypical.

Unique Sensory Processing

Most types of neurodiversity include an unusual way of processing sensory information, either being over- or under- sensitive to sensory input. The empath archetype also has this pattern.

Our bodies have myriad ways of sensing the world around us. This is the case before we look at more esoteric things such as intuition, clairvoyance, etc. Let’s start with the basic five senses: touch, hearing, taste, smell and sight.

An important keyword here is “exteroception”. This is the sense of what is happening outside of our bodies. The basic five senses inform our exteroception, so are components of it. People with the empath archetype often focus on their heightened sense of exteroception. They feel especially sensitive to the external world around them. This includes the emotional lives of others.

To learn more about sensitivity and being a Highly Sensitive Person, read my article on the “Princess and the Pea Story: Valuing Sensitivity.

Basics of Interoception

In contrast to exteroception, we also have the sense of “interoception” which is the ability to perceive what is happening within our bodies. This is the sense through which we feel our own hunger, relaxation, pain, temperature, joy, grief, etc. Interoception tells us about our emotional and physical states. When someone tells you to “check in with your body” or to “talk about how you are feeling”, you are using your sense of interoception. Somatic practices exercise interoception. When a person would like to become more “embodied” this is the sense they wish to heighten.

These two sensory systems are not mutually exclusive. We don’t have one set of sensors for internal conditions and another for external inputs. The sensors and neuropathways we use to sense what is around us and in us are interwoven. Exteroception and interoception dance.

Challenge of the Empath Archetype

This is where the challenge of the empath archetype comes in. When a person’s empathic abilities are underdeveloped, the person will not be able to discern which input is outside of her system and which is happening within her body. She doesn’t know what is and isn’t hers. She can’t tell the difference between someone else’s pain and her own. The unaware empath is unable to locate the origin of a sensation.

In the challenged state, the empath archetype has us picking up other people’s feelings. We mistake our friend’s anguish for our own. Soon we are carrying a lot of emotional baggage around that doesn’t belong to us. This emotion and sensation overload takes a toll on our bodies. This is the shadow side of being an empath that most people are familiar with.

This is not to say that we don’t share suffering or joy with others, we do all of the time. But, if we are constantly commingling our emotions, we misjudge the amplitude of these feelings. If we combine our grief with the global grief about a war, we are saddled with a crippling sadness beyond what our systems can handle.

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POLL Results

Do you consider yourself an empath? And/or are you neurodivergent?

  • I’m an empath = 19%
  • I’m neurodivergent = 11%
  • Both are true = 70%
    (27 VOTES)

Share your answer to these questions in the comments below!

Questions to Ask

To help bring out the gifts of the empath archetype, the first step is to learn about the exteroception and interoception systems. The most helpful question here is, “Where is this sensation coming from?” The answer could be “out there”, “in here”, or “both”. When the answer is “both places”. Then the next question is, “How much is coming from the different places?” Or put another way, “What here is mine and what here is that of others?”

The next challenge for someone with the empath archetype is to then modulate their sensory systems consciously versus unconsciously.

When an empath’s sensory system gets overwhelmed, their automatic, unconscious reflex is to shut down. It’s the equivalent of a hedgehog rolling into a ball. Nothing gets in our out. Nothing happens internally either. This stillness can offer respite, but it is not a lasting solution. As soon as the empath turns their senses back on, it all comes rushing back full force, or maybe even stronger.

This swing between hypersensitivity (feeling too much) and hyposensitivity (feeling too little) is a classic challenge for someone who is unaware of how to work with the empath archetype.

Bringing Out the Gifts

The gift of the empath archetype is navigating the sensory landscape and discerning these key things.

  • Where is the sensation/emotion/experience originating?
  • How much is coming from each location?
  • Which of my senses do I to turn up or down to take care of myself?

This last pieces is really important. As an empath who feels everything strongly, you might be asking, “When would I ever want to feel something more?” A common myth about the empath archetype is that they feel everything too much and they need to set better boundaries. This myth encourages a reactionary shut down that is problematic. See-sawing back and forth between wide open and shut down causes exhaustion and stress.

Take this example: A woman who is unaware of how to work with the empath archetype is flooded by the anguish of a mass shooting in her community. She spends weeks drowning in terror and despair. She scrambles around trying to be there for others who were impacted, but never feels like she’s helping much. This woman continues to take on more suffering the more people she sees. Total exhaustion and physical illness hit. Then she spends days in bed. A chronic illness may settle in. The whole time she feels totally helpless in the face of such an atrocity.

Story of a Balanced Empath

Let’s say this woman is in the gifted empath archetype. She is aware of how to work with the patterns. Here’s how the same circumstances would look. She is flooded with the terror and anguish of the mass shooting. She pauses to turn down the loads of external suffering (exteroception), and turn up her more quiet interoception to “check in” with her own body and system.

The empath archetype in her reminds her to take a break to honor her own emotions first. She goes for a walk in the woods. She turns her exteroception back up to take in the beauty, peace, and comfort of nature. Listening again to her interior, she finds a sense of resolve and strength.

She is ready to visit a friend at the hospital who was wounded in the shooting. She keeps her exteroception at medium volume, micro-tuning it as needed. When her interoception tells her she has given all the care she has for today, she gives her friend a fully present, loving hug and leaves.

Her retreat allows her energy to re-engage day after day, for as long as her friend needs. The woman with the empath archetype is present the whole time to feel the depth and breadth and beauty of life. She feels connected and loved. In the aftermath of the tragedy, her days ebb and flow in the way described above. Always, the woman with the gifts of the empath archetype comes back to center. Always, she listens, senses, and adjusts.

To learn more about neurodivergence, especially in women, I highly recommend the book “Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World that Wasn’t Designed for You” by Jenara Nerenberg.

For more information on sensory differences, interoception, and all EIGHT of our senses see:

https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/8-senses

https://www.healthline.com/health/childrens-health/sensory-issues-in-children#sensory-processing

 

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Femme Fatale Archetype

 The Femme Fatale Archetype

The Femme Fatale archetype’s name is a French term meaning “fatal” or “disastrous” woman. Other names for the Femme Fatale archetype include: temptress, seductress, siren, harpy, black widow, man-eater, and succubus.

Superficially, the Femme Fatale archetype comes across a dangerous seductress who lures men into her clutches. Society tends to view her as an attractive and powerful woman who relishes the destruction of men. She is a favorite screen character contaminated by host of stereotypes that prevent us from knowing her full story.

A Woman Stripped of Agency

The Femme Fatale did not start out as a violent person, she was made one through man’s (or god’s) need for vengeance. When we trace the Femme Fatale’s roots we see her in stories of the first woman. The Greek goddess Pandora is a perfect example of the Femme Fatale.

The Greek god Zeus was angry with Prometheus for stealing fire from Mt. Olympus and giving it to man. He felt it gave man an unfair advantage and he sought to level the playing field. He commanded all the gods to create Pandora. She was beautiful, beguiling, witty, and extravagantly adorned. Then Zeus delivered her to the doorstep of Prometheus’s brother as a “gift”. She carried with her a jar (or box in some stories) that contained all the ills of the world. When Pandora opens the jar, she does so out of curiosity, not malice, and inadvertently plagues the world of men.

Through Pandora’s story and the stories of other first women like Eve and Lilith, we see that the Femme Fatale archetype begins as a victim or vessel of vengeance. Pandora did not ask to curse the world. She had no choice in the matter. The Femme Fatale’s story is not about a woman with agency, but a woman stripped of agency. She is on a journey to recover the power she’s lost.

Fighting Vengeance with Revenge

The shadow Femme Fatale is a common archetype of victims of sexual discrimination and sexual assault. To escape brutality forced upon her, the Femme Fatale fights violence with violence. The Femme Fatale is trying to heal, but she does so via shadow means. All she knows is cruelty, so she turns to cruelty.

In the movies and TV, the Femme Fatale weaves an elaborate web to trap her perpetrator and make him suffer. If she doesn’t kill him outright, she maims his reputation and ruins his fortune. In the television series Damages, for example, the actress Glenn Close brilliantly portrays a shadow Femme Fatale. This makes for entertaining cinema, but is a terrible depiction of reality. These fictions ignore the power inequity the Femme Fatale, and women, face.

Due to the sexual double standard, most women in real-life don’t consider going after the man that caused them harm. The power inequity is too great. No one will believe her or back her. She doesn’t have the social or financial resources to overpower him. She may prey on weaker men, but she usually looks elsewhere.

In the shadow, the Femme Fatale goes after other women by smearing their reputations and undermining their self-esteem. The Femme Fatale can also invert the violence, and take revenge upon herself. This results in self-harm and isolation.

The Feminist Movement

We don’t use the term Femme Fatale in conversation today, but she’s here in your every day life and her name is “slut”. The terms are synonymous. Efforts to raise awareness about the cruelty of slut-bashing and slut-shaming are at the heart of the Femme Fatale archetype. In her light side, the Femme Fatale speaks out against the sexual double standard and sexual discrimination. She is in the #metoo, #weasourselves, and other movements for sexual and gender equality.

The feminist movement is powered by the Femme Fatale archetype and her drive to recover agency for women and all gender and sexual minorities.

She endeavors to lift the veil on sexual assault. Her light shines through in the recent testimonies of female US Olympic Gymnasts. In addition to revealing the atrocities of an evil man and confronting him in court, these gymnasts are banding together to unveil systemic violence throughout national organizations and government. The #muteRKelly movement is revealing abuses in the music industry and we’ve seen similar unveilings in Hollywood.

Femme Fatale’s Sisterhood

The Femme Fatale in the light gathers together with other victims of sexual violence and discrimination to create a sisterhood. Part of her initial wounding involves exile and isolation. To heal she must find others to join together with. Together their voices are too loud. Society and those in power can no longer dismiss them. Meeting their demands for change is the only option.

The sisterhood not only serves to elevate voices of the abused, it also employs love to help the Femme Fatale archetype heal. She opens her heart to her fellow survivors. She realizes that true power resides in love. The Femme Fatale moves from destructive indignation to creative action in her experience of being part of something larger than herself.

A Fully Examined Life

The Femme Fatale moves in the light by first identifying the personal injuries inflicted upon her by a specific person or people. By recognizing the perpetrator and naming her abuse, she steps out of shame. To continue her healing she can’t stop there. If she is unable to find justice she may never heal. Even if she does get her day in court and the abuser has to pay for his crime, her mistrust in people will remain.

The path to feeling safe to open her heart resides in a fully examined life. She needs to understand her position in a culture that enables and excuses sexual violence. Her abuser was able to do what he did and get away with it. She realizes that he is not the only problem, the system is. Then she endeavors to change the cultural views and treatment of both women and non-dominate genders and sexualities. She fully examines the system and works toward creating solutions that include loving, equal treatment of all. She balances out her destructive capacity with her creative ability.

The Femme Fatale archetype in the light lives a fully examined life. She is an agent of love. She clears out prejudices and double-standards within herself. The Femme Fatale owns her attempts to overpower others. She dismantles her rage against misogyny. She gives up the fatal lust for power and turns to love. In the end, her commitment to non-violence, awareness, equality, and love wins out.

 

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Don Juan Archetype

The Don Juan Archetype

The use of the name “Don Juan” in reference to a womanizer began in 1630 with a play called The Trickster of Seville written by Tirso de Molina in Spain. There are many names for the Don Juan archetype including Casanova, ladies man, womanizer, lady killer, Lothario (which comes from the novel Don Quixote), Libertine, Romeo (thank you Shakespeare), playboy, and philanderer.

All of these names originate in the 16th and 17th centuries, which means the Don Juan archetype was likely born in that era. However, archetypes do not materialize out of thin air. Archetypes, by definition, are both timeless and universal. The Don Juan has to come from somewhere, but where?

Origins of the Don Juan

The Don Juan originated from another, well known archetype. That archetype is the trickster. Many qualities of the trickster archetype show themselves in the Don Juan archetype. The Don Juan tricks women into falling in love with him. He also plays tricks on society, thwarting social norms and breaking taboos. The Don Juan, like many tricksters, has a large sexual appetite and considers himself beyond the reach of governing bodies.

The Don Juan archetype turns ideas of honor on their head just like the trickster has a knack for turning things upside down. Moral codes suggest that a man not covet another man’s wife, but this is precisely what the Don Juan archetype in the shadow does. He goes after the women that society tells him he can’t have. He shoots above his rank and position, goes for the unwed maiden, or takes the powerful man’s wife. By society’s standards, the Don Juan is dishonorable. In trickster fashion, he has a way of using dishonor to build a reputation as a ladies man.

It is important to note that the Don Juan arose from the trickster archetype, but is NOT the same archetype. They are two distinct archetypal patterns. The Don Juan is concerned with love and sexual relationships. The trickster encompasses a much larger and different sphere of influences.

The Don Juan vs. The Lover Archetype

The lover archetype and the Don Juan are also similar but distinct. Both are concerned with affairs of the heart and romantic relationships. They evolve from trying to control their romantic partners to cultivating a truly loving relationship that respects the rights and freedom of their partner.

The big difference between the lover and the Don Juan archetype is apparent when looking at their shadows. The lover in the shadow is the one that is duped. The lover falls head over heels and forgets herself entirely in her infatuation with the object of her desire. The shadow lover could be described as loving too easily.

The Don Juan in the shadow behaves in the opposite way. The shadow Don Juan archetype is obsessed with himself and wants his partner to join him in that self-absorption. In the shadow, the Don Juan is the one that is doing the duping and does not love easily or openly.

Finding Self-Love

The Don Juan in the shadow is in love with himself and expects everyone else to be too. Not all narcissists are Don Juans, but all shadow Don Juans are narcissists.  He is charming, witty, and attractive which affirms his high opinion of himself. Most people adore him. The Don Juan dresses to impress and is entirely absorbed with what pleases him.

The general consensus about the Don Juan is that he is in love with himself and that he can’t love anyone else. He is seen as selfish and self-centered, which is true when he’s in the under-developed, shadow state.

The Don Juan’s self-love is based on a hardened self-image. This stone-like exterior prevents love from coming in as much as going out. The trick is on him. He has isolated himself from what feeds his soul. To evolve, the Don Juan archetype must soften, die to the image of himself, and truly get to know who he is deep down. Once he meets himself,  he discovers acceptance and honest love of self.

In the light, the Don Juan archetype knows and truly loves himself. He has dropped the trick of the surface image and embraced the vulnerability of being real. Only then can he experience reciprocity in love.

Reforming the Rake or Bad Boy

Another term for the Don Juan archetype is rake. Those of you familiar with the novel or show Bridgerton probably caught Daphne calling Simon a “notorious rake.” The Don Juan archetype is popular in books, shows, and movies these days because there is a special allure to the rake. Many women want to reform him.

The bad boys who slip the grasp of relationships and can’t seem to love their partners are attractive in a backwards kind of way. A woman tempted by the Don Juan thinks, “What if after having sampled all these lovers that I am THE ONE that he can’t live without? What if he loves me so much that he is ready to finally settle down?”

The problem is that this woman places her self-esteem in the Don Juan’s hands and he can smell her weakness a mile away. As much as the Don Juan needs to develop true self-love, he also must find a partner that knows the same self-love. They need to be confident on their own in order to be confident together.

Don Juan Archetype as Taboo Breaker

So far in this article, I’ve talked about the Don Juan as a “he” and his partner as a “she”. These are outdated conventions that the Don Juan archetype in the light breaks every day. The Don Juan in the light is loving and inclusive of all people. His inherent disregard for class, status, race, sexuality, and gender makes him a brilliant champion of human rights.

The Don Juan transcends sexual and gender taboos, breaking all boundaries to love. It is in his/her/their nature to confuse preconditioned notions of him/her/them. We find this archetype in people of all genders and all sexual orientations. Examples of Don Juans who break gender and sexual stereotypes are Shane McCutcheon in The L Word and Samantha Jones in Sex and the City.

Expert at Honest Consent

In the shadow, the Don Juan archetype uses deceit and manipulation to gain consent from his partners, or he disregards consent altogether. When looking at the light of the Don Juan, the opposite happens. The Don Juan has the potential to be gifted with consent.

According to Project Respect, “”Consent is a mutual verbal, physical, and emotional agreement that happens without manipulation, threats, or head games.” [1]

In the light, the Don Juan uses their charm, superb ability to read body language and non-verbal cues, and keen intuition to read if a person’s feelings match their words. The Don Juan is an expert at attaining and delivering honest consent. They want to know how their partner honestly feels. The Don Juan knows what they truly want and is honest about it. The Don Juan is committed to discerning and discussing any power inequities in the relationship, and to making sure that the relationship (romantic or otherwise) is based on mutual respect and love.

[1] https://www.yesmeansyes.com/consent/

 

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Dilettante Archetype

Dilettante, Polymath, and Generalist Archetype

The Dilettante Archetype

First thing’s first, what does dilettante mean? The word “dilettante” is Italian in origin and refers to a person who studies something, such as the arts, for amusement. It comes from the root dilettare which means “to delight”. The dilettante delights in learning many different things. The meaning of dilettante today relates to someone who has superficial understanding of a subject, but who pursues it anyway.

Not only is there confusion around the meaning of the word, but also how to say it. The way to pronounce dilettante is “dill-uh-taant”. The “e” at the end is silent.

Many people describe the dilettante as an amateur, a dabbler. The Latin root of amateur is amator meaning “lover”, so we also see that the dilettante cares deeply about what she learns.

Archetypes are NOT measures of intelligence or aptitude. The name of an archetype is not quantitative and it should not indicate person’s skill level. Archetypes help us identify patterns of human behavior along a FULL spectrum of ability.

To say that the dilettante archetype is always superficial is to use the stereotype. At times this archetype is a dabbler and at others she is extremely knowledgeable. We need to expand our understanding of the patterns of this archetype. The easiest way to do that is to look at the many different names that relate to this one archetypal pattern.

The Polymath Archetype

The dilettante archetype is also the polymath archetype. The polymath is someone whose knowledge is far-ranging. She has an omnivorous curiosity and easily impresses others with everything she knows.

The typical polymath is skilled in many art forms, can hold her own in a scientific debate, is well versed in politics and history, and may speak multiple languages. Think of Oprah Winfrey who is a journalist, actor, critic, publisher, philanthropist, and entrepreneur. She is also an influencer in theology/spirituality, psychology, cultural studies, politics, and fitness/nutrition.

Both the dilettante and polymath study many things at once. This pattern is archetypal. In today’s culture, the polymath is viewed as brilliant and talented. The dilettante is seen as a charlatan who pretends to know more than she does. But, throughout history this has not always been the case. There were periods when the term “polymath” was a criticism, and times when the term “dilettante” was a compliment.

Shadow of Superficiality

The common challenge of this archetype centers around superficiality. Her depth of knowledge is under constant scrutiny. This scrutiny can come from others or from within.

There is a myth that says one person cannot know a lot about a lot. The pressure to specialize in a specific field is intense. Just think about the requirement to choose a major in college. Not to mention that universities were originally established to provide a “universal” education. There is not a lot of tolerance for the generalist in today’s society. Think of the put down “Jack of all trades, master of none.”

On the other hand, it is possible that the criticisms are true. In the shadow, the dilettante can be a consummate dabbler. She flits from one domain to the next. Her delight distracts her from staying long enough to know something well. She pretends to know way more than she does.

When the criticism comes from within, the shadow dilettante archetype can be hard on herself. She feels she is superficial no matter what. She focuses on what she can’t do and yearns to know more. This insecurity drives a constant quest for learning everything about everything. It is exhausting.

Information Overload

This brings us to another challenge of the dilettante archetype. She struggles with information overload. In her effort to know everything, she is under immense pressure to learn. The shadow dilettante takes on too many projects at once. She multitasks, and when that doesn’t work she cuts down on self-care. The over-extended dilettante doesn’t get enough sleep or eat regular meals.

There is no way one human can take on all she does. Projects go unfinished and promises unmet. This leads to information anxiety.

The mature dilettante is different. She learns how to classify and categorize information so it’s easily accessible. She knows how many projects she can handle at once. The sensible dilettante discerns when she knows enough and readily admits when she doesn’t know. This alleviates the pressure to know everything and allows her interests to guide the way.

Power of the Generalist

When she learns how to moderate her project load, there is a light side to the dilettante archetype. She has many gifts. First of all, today’s world needs more generalists. Our problems are too complex to solve from the myopic lens of one specialty. We need generalists who are able to carry solutions between disciplines.

The more wide-ranging the generalist’s interests, the more likely she is to bring revolutionary ideas. For example, my lessons in natural horsemanship provide analogies for working with emotions on the spiritual path. Patterns I observe in nature help me know more about my own nature.

Taking knowledge from one field and using it as an analogy in another is called “deep analogical thinking”. The generalist, aka dilettante archetype, is much better at deep analogical thinking than the specialist. Here we see that the dilettante is a deep thinker. She sees the deep, underlying structure of a problem. Just like that, the superficiality stereotype dissolves.

Inter-Spiritual Dilettante

The dilettante archetype in today’s world is the “inter-disciplinary”, the person who studies many disciplines. The popularity the inter-disciplinary is increasing in academia and business, but less so in spirituality. There is a criticism of a person who studies many religions and spiritual paths at once. She is called the “spiritual dilettante”. People say her spirituality is superficial because she hasn’t committed to a single path. She is simply dabbling. But as we now know, this is one end of the spectrum of this archetypal pattern.

The person who follows many spiritual paths can be the dilettante in the light. She indeed goes deeper. Mirabai Starr teaches that the spiritual dilettante in the light uses many tools to dig one deep well. Mirabai has coined the term “inter-spiritual” in relation to the person of many faiths.

The spiritual path is littered with complex problems. The inter-spiritual dilettante’s far-ranging knowledge gives her an advantage. Think of how many spiritual masters answer questions with parables. Parables are deep analogies, which the dilettante excels at.

 

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The Student Archetype

Student Archetype

The student is all about learning. She looks to own information and skills, but knowledge is more than a collection of facts. Knowledge is also awareness and experience. To bring the learning to fruition, the student must gather the courage to apply it in the real world. She must give up living by the book, and learn to think for herself.

For the immature student, learning is a process that happens by transmission. A teacher relays information to the student. The student absorbs this information, and regurgitates it in original form. The teacher’s pet is the one who parrots information back the best, and that is the pinnacle of performance for her.

The student archetype who is underdeveloped swings between two extremes. On one end, she has no confidence in her own intelligence and thinks that she isn’t good at learning. This presents a barrier to education and causes her to be close-minded. This sets the student up to default to the teacher and not own her previous experience and ability to learn. On the other hand, the student archetype is overly confident in her ability. She thinks she already knows everything because she’s studied so hard. This also results in a closed mind.

Learning to the Test

The student starts out with an obsessive, insatiable hunger to learn. She wants to get all the answers right. For the undeveloped student archetype, good grades and being the top of her class are everything.

When she gets a bad grade, the student archetype can blame her teacher. She may fault the curriculum and badmouth the school. Whether the accusations are true or not, the student can place the responsibility for her education outside of herself.

When it is time to put her knowledge to use, the student can refuse to act. She uses the excuse of too few credentials, degrees, credits, or certifications. The antithesis of trial by fire, the student studies instead of acts. She prefers to remain in the ivory tower, naive of real world problems she’s ill equipped to solve. She’d rather take another exam and try for a better score than leave academia.

In her unevolved form, the student learns to ace the test. She much prefers the critical eye of her teacher over that of public opinion. Extrinsic approval and the reward of a high GPA motivates her.

Student in Experiential Learning

As she grows, the student archetype realizes that learning involves building on pre-existing knowledge. Learning is a process of construction and creation that needs her engagement. Passive absorption no longer satisfies her. Instead of taking in raw information without thought, the mature student intentionally processes experience.

As the student finds her role in the learning process her mind opens. She enters into the cycle of experiential learning. In the first step she takes in experience with mindfulness, watching with curiosity. Next, she reflects on what happened and sits with what puzzles her.

Paramount for the mature student is the act of metacognition – thinking about her own thinking. She engages her to come up with potential solutions. Coming up with answers on her own versus insisting someone provide the right answer, means the student is taking responsibility for her own learning process. She not only thinks for herself, but evaluates her own learning process to learn about how she learns.

The empowered student is willing to make an educated guess, and put this theory to the test with intentional action. This is testing to learn. She is the self-author of her knowledge, willing to carry it out into the real world and put what she knows to the test.

Multiple Forms of Intelligence

The student archetype initially focuses on IQ. She sees learning purely as an intellectual pursuit and wants to sharpen her cognitive abilities. She relies heavily on reasoning and logic to get her through. The immature student feels good about herself when she scores higher than her classmates on exams. She believes she can think her way through anything if she learns the right facts and procedures. There is definitely a shadow of competitiveness when IQ scores and GPAs are in the picture.

The enlightened student archetype stands back from the impulse to be a smarty-pants, know-it-all and opens up to the intelligence of others. She sees everyone as her equal regardless of who knows more or less than she does. She enjoys a good study session with colleagues with a mutual sharing of ideas.

As she matures, the student opens to other forms of intelligence within. These include emotional intelligence and intuitive intelligence. The biology also has its own intelligence. She starts listening to aches, pains, and pleasures of the body as valuable sources of information. The student learns to access the greater cosmic intelligence, and uses faculties beyond the five senses to receive information through spiritual guidance.

Learning from the physical, emotional, intuitive, and spiritual systems, the student grows into a truly talented learner. No longer does she need textbooks because knowledge is everywhere. She actively engages with creating and using it.

Student vs. Teacher

The student archetype is primarily interested in learning, period. If someone wants to hear what she’s learned, she’ll be glad to share. However, she doesn’t want to help someone else understand. The student is interested in her personal learning and advancement. She doesn’t make a good teacher.

Some people wonder if they have both the student and the teacher archetypes. These two archetypes are too similar to have both as your primary archetypes. People who are dedicated to helping others learn are inherently learners themselves. Thus, the student is embedded within the teacher. For the people who prefer to learn for learning’s sake, they have the student archetype only.

 

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The Exorcist Archetype

The Exorcist Archetype

The exorcist archetype drives out evil spirits from a person or place. Originally the word “exorcise” meant to conjure up an evil spirit. This shows the thin line the exorcist walks between expelling the darkness and invoking it.

Demon / Daimon / Daemon

Evil spirits are often described as demons. Demons have a reputation for causing torment, illness, and calamity.

The term demon originates from the Greek word “daimon” (also spelled “daemon”), which started out with a neutral connotation. Those of you who watch His Dark Materials on HBO or BBC are familiar with this definition. Daimon refers to a spirit of any kind from a guardian angel to a malevolent force. The exorcist archetype is able to tell the difference between different types of daimons.

Her ability to tell good from evil is a valuable skill because seemingly mild things can be dangerous. On the other hand, apparently fierce beings turn out to be benevolent. As St. Teresa of Avila said, “The devil is a skillful painter.

Not every spirit that possesses us is bad. We can be possessed by the spirit of a helpful, creative idea. Psychics, mediums, and shamans are possessed by helping spirits to receive insight for others. They are trust the exorcist archetype within to discern what energy is appropriate to channel.

Inner and Outer Demons

Outer demons manifest as literal evil in the world that can inhabit people and places. These are the demons of TV shows and movies such as The Exorcist. Outer demons cause good people to turn into monsters. Outer demons can inflict terrible illnesses. One example in the Bible is the story of Jesus and the boy with seizures in the gospel of Matthew chapter 17: 14-21.

It takes years of training to learn how to conduct exorcisms of outer demons. Anyone learning to expel outer demons should have an expert mentor or teacher. Becoming a professional exorcist requires rigorous initiation and training.

If you are going to a professional exorcist to battle outer demons besieging you, be mindful. You run the risk of developing a codependent relationship with your exorcist. You are less likely to be ensnared by outer demons if you are able to confront your inner demons.

Inner demons manifest in a myriad of ways. Some of the most common are the demons of fear, craving, hatred, grudges, pride, depression, anxiety, and addiction. We often use the term “he is battling his demons” when someone is struggling with mental illness or addiction. We all have our own inner demons to clear. Even though we use the language metaphorically, inner demons can inflict real harm.

Exorcist Archetype versus Shaman Archetype

Not all shamans are exorcists, and not all exorcists are shamans. Just like not all priests are exorcists, and not all exorcists are priests. A person can carry the exorcist archetype without being associated with shamanism or any clergy. There are many specialties in shamanism, and exorcism is just one of at least a dozen specialities.

The exorcist archetype is concerned with clearing out or neutralizing evil spirits and evil traits. She works with the fundamental polarities of light and dark. She is the candle in the darkness that pitches good against evil.

The shaman archetype is an intermediary between the worlds. She navigates the spirit, human, and natural worlds. The shaman  has a foot in both worlds. She communicates with nature spirits and the elements, and performs healings.

The Shadow Exorcist Archetype

In the shadow, the exorcist archetype mistrusts any spirit. An example of this is the Catholic priest that exorcises a little girl who plays with nature spirits in her backyard. The girl’s affiliation with pixies and sprites is innocent and natural. However, the exorcist in the shadow makes the little girl feel wrong. He taints her innate intimacy with the helping spirits of the natural world. At the most extreme, the exorcist archetype works to cast out traits of people he does not agree with. An example of this is conversion or reparative therapy for LGBTQ+ people. The shadow exorcist puts the label of “evil demon” on someone’s human nature.

The exorcist archetype in the shadow may have trouble handling all the evil around her, and, if she’s not careful, the darkness can overwhelm her. This is the cautionary tale of the exorcist becoming the possessed person. The demon jumps off the person she’s exorcising and onto her.

The shadow exorcist can become possessed with a lust for power. She may be so good at her job of expelling demonic spirits that she gets high on the power and prestige. In battling so many blood-thirsty demons, the exorcist archetype becomes a monster. She can’t help herself but find demons everywhere and pride herself on being the person who can conquer them.

Light Attracts Dark and Dark Attracts Light

The exorcist archetype in the light is a master at one particular mystical law: the law that light attracts darkness and darkness attracts light. This is the mystical law of yin and yang, of opposing forces.

The exorcist is mindful that as her light grows so will the darkness that comes to her door. Therefore, she is careful not to amplify her light beyond her capacity to manage the darkness.

Many exorcists are overwhelmed by dark forces when they focus solely on conjuring the light and refuse to meet their own inner demons. The exorcist in her power knows that working through her own fears and insecurities is just as important than nurturing her inner light.

One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by making the darkness conscious.” – Carl Jung

Exorcist Archetype in the Light

The exorcist archetype in the light is a master at navigating the stages of exorcism. She is able to name and engage with the demon. This shines light on the darkness, which is the first step to neutralizing it.

Demons have a natural ability to re-sprout like the hydra’s head. The exorcist knows this. In the story of the Buddhist goddess Kali and the Demons, she struggles to defeat the last demon king because every drop of blood he sheds sprouts a new demon horde.

The exorcist archetype in the light knows that the demons will always come back. Mara always returned to Buddha the Enlightened One. Jesus exorcised many. The exorcist in her power knows that does not mean she’s failed. This is a matter of mystical law – light attracts darkness.

There is a link between the exorcist archetype and the practice of feeding. Kali drank Raktavira’s blood to staunch the flow of demons. Machig Labdron, a famous 11th century Tibetan yogini, feed a horde of nagas (the Buddhist term for demons) from her own body. There is something about nourishing one another that breaks polarization. Polarization keeps the demon alive.

The exorcist in the light is able to carry the paradox of dark and light. She is able to hold her center in the midst of the most powerful dualities – dark and light; good and evil. She does not shy away from darkness, nor does she become intoxicated by the light. She neutralizes duality into oneness.

 

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All three archetypes clear out the status quo to make way for an expansive, naked awareness. They purify us along the spiritual path and address the fears we encounter. The exorcist transmutes demons into allies and separation into union. The destroyer embraces the cycle of destruction to unlock hidden potential. The liberator uses wisdom to free us from attachment and suffering.